Wednesday 11 February 2015

First Kim K, now Kanye? John Legend throws Kanye under the bus

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From: Linda Ikeji


First Kim K, now Kanye? John Legend throws Kanye under the bus
Why is singer John Legend doing this to his friends in public? Lol. Yesterday, he shaded Kim K for misrepresenting a Grammy selfie (see here), now he has come for his bosom friend, Kanye West.

After being quoted by Us Weekly saying Kanye's latest Grammy stunt was harmless and funny, John Legend took to instagram to throw his quote in reserve after listening to what Kanye had to say about Beck after the awards. He kinda subtly said Kanye was silly for saying Beck didn't deserve the award. See what he wrote on instagram after the cut..

John Legend on Instagram;

I want to clarify my thoughts on Kanye's actions at the Grammys on Sunday. First of all, Kanye is my friend. He believed in me years ago when very few did, and I wouldn't be here without his support. That doesn't mean we'll agree on everything, but it does mean that I am grateful to him. And I also believe he is one of the most gifted people I've had the privilege of working with.
In my comments to US Weekly, I said that when Kanye walked up on stage, mimicking his interruption of Taylor Swift's VMA acceptance speech, then turned around as if he was just playing, most of the room including me saw this as funny, as a way of taking the piss out of himself for his infamous behavior several years ago.
When I said that was funny and people should lighten up about it, that's what I meant. I wasn't referring to Kanye's comments after the show which I have now seen and heard. I disagree with those comments. Beck is indeed a true artist's artist. He's a multi-instrumentalist, a creative and unique singer-songwriter whose music I have bought and enjoyed over the years. While his win may have been a surprise to many, it's not because he's not a great artist deserving of recognition.

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All of the other nominated artists, including Beyonce, are incredible in their own right, and arguments could be made for any of them deserving to win. This is not an objective process. It's completely subjective, in fact. We can all debate who we thought should have won. But even if you didn't vote for him, plenty of our colleagues in the music business did.
These voters are all creators who love music and have dedicated their lives to it, and the plurality of them chose Beck as the Album of the Year. I respect their decision and congratulate Beck on this outstanding accomplishment.

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Postponed election, an act of desperation from an incumbent terrified of losing - Chimamanda Adichie

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From: Linda Ikeji


Postponed election, an act of desperation from an incumbent terrified of losing - Chimamanda Adichie
In a piece titled "Democracy, Deferred", award winning author, Chimamanda Adichie described the recent postponement of the general elections as an act of desperation from an incumbent terrified of losing. Below is the article published on The Atlantic...
Last week, Victor, a carpenter, came to my Lagos home to fix a broken chair. I asked him whom he preferred as Nigeria's next president: the incumbent, Goodluck Jonathan, or his challenger, Muhammadu Buhari. "I don't have a voter's card, but if I did, I would vote for somebody I don't like," he said. 'I don't like Buhari but Jonathan is not performing."

Victor sounded like many people I know: utterly unenthusiastic about the two major candidates in our upcoming election.
Were Nigerians to vote on likeability alone, Jonathan would win. He is mild-mannered and genially unsophisticated, with a conventional sense of humor. Buhari has a severe, ascetic air about him, a rigid uprightness; it is easy to imagine him in 1984, leading a military government whose soldiers routinely beat up civil servants. Neither candidate is articulate. Jonathan is given to rambling; his unscripted speeches leave listeners vaguely confused. Buhari is thick-tongued, his words difficult to decipher. In public appearances, he seems uncomfortable not only with the melodrama of campaigning but also with the very idea of it. To be a democratic candidate is to implore and persuade, and his demeanor suggests a man who is not at ease with amiable consensus. Still, he is no stranger to campaigns. This is his third run as a presidential candidate; the last time, in 2011, he lost to Jonathan.
This time, Buhari's prospects are better. Jonathan is widely perceived as ineffectual, and the clearest example, which has eclipsed his entire presidency, is his response to Boko Haram. Such a barbaric Islamist insurgency would challenge any government. But while Boko Haram bombed and butchered, Jonathan seemed frozen in a confused, tone-deaf inaction. Conflicting stories emerged of an ill-equipped army, of a corrupt military leadership, of northern elites sponsoring Boko Haram, and even of the government itself sponsoring Boko Haram.
Jonathan floated to power, unprepared, on a serendipitous cloud. He was a deputy governor of Bayelsa state who became governor when his corrupt boss was forced to quit. Chosen as vice president because powerbrokers considered him the most harmless option from southern Nigeria, he became president when his northern boss died in office. Nigerians gave him their goodwill—he seemed refreshingly unassuming—but there were powerful forces who wanted him out, largely because he was a southerner, and it was supposed to be the north's 'turn' to occupy the presidential office.
And so the provincial outsider suddenly thrust onto the throne, blinking in the chaotic glare of competing interests, surrounded by a small band of sycophants, startled by the hostility of his traducers, became paranoid. He was slow to act, distrustful and diffident. His mildness came across as cluelessness. His response to criticism calcified to a single theme: His enemies were out to get him. When the Chibok girls were kidnapped, he and his team seemed at first to believe that it was a fraud organized by his enemies to embarrass him. His politics of defensiveness made it difficult to sell his genuine successes, such as his focus on the long-neglected agricultural sector and infrastructure projects. His spokespeople alleged endless conspiracy theories, compared him to Jesus Christ, and generally kept him entombed in his own sense of victimhood.
The delusions of Buhari's spokespeople are better packaged, and obviously free of incumbency's crippling weight. They blame Jonathan for everything that is wrong with Nigeria, even the most multifarious, ancient knots. They dismiss references to Buhari's past military leadership, and couch their willful refusal in the language of 'change,' as though Buhari, by representing change from Jonathan, has also taken on an ahistorical saintliness.
I remember the Buhari years as a blur of bleakness. I remember my mother bringing home sad rations of tinned milk, otherwise known as "essential commodities"—the consequences of Buhari's economic policy. I remember air thick with fear, civil servants made to do frog jumps for being late to work, journalists imprisoned, Nigerians flogged for not standing in line, a political vision that cast citizens as recalcitrant beasts to be whipped into shape.
Buhari's greatest source of appeal is that he is widely perceived as non-corrupt. Nigerians have been told how little money he has, how spare his lifestyle is. But to sell the idea of an incorruptible candidate who will fight corruption is to rely on the disingenuous trope that Buhari is not his party. Like Jonathan's People's Democratic Party, Buhari's All Progressives Congress is stained with corruption, and its patrons have a checkered history of exploitative participation in governance. Buhari's team is counting on the strength of his perceived personal integrity: his image as a good guy forced by realpolitik to hold hands with the bad guys, who will be shaken off after his victory.
In my ancestral home state of Anambra, where Jonathan is generally liked, the stronger force at play is a distrust of Buhari, partly borne of memories of his military rule, and partly borne of his reputation, among some Christians, as a Muslim fundamentalist. When I asked a relative whom she would vote for, she said, "Jonathan of course. Am I crazy to vote for Buhari so that Nigeria will become a sharia country?"
Nigeria has predictable voting patterns, as all democratic countries do. Buhari can expect support from large swaths of the core north, and Jonathan from southern states. Region and religion are potent forces here. Vice presidents are carefully picked with these factors in mind: Buhari's is a southwestern Christian and Jonathan's is a northern Muslim. But it is not so simple. There are non-northerners who would ordinarily balk at voting for a 'northerner' but who support Buhari because he can presumably fight corruption. There are northern supporters of Jonathan who are not part of the region's Christian minorities.
Delaying the elections is a staggeringly self-serving act of contempt for Nigerians.
Last week, I was indifferent about the elections, tired of television commercials and contrived controversies. There were rumors that the election, which was scheduled for February 14, would be postponed, but there always are; our political space is a lair of conspiracies. I was uninterested in the apocalyptic predictions. Nigeria was not imploding. We had crossed this crossroads before, we were merely electing a president in an election bereft of inspiration. And the existence of a real opposition party that might very well win was a sign of progress in our young democracy


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Then, on Saturday, the elections were delayed for six weeks. Nigeria's security agencies, we were told, would not be available to secure the elections because they would be fighting Boko Haram and needed at least another month and a half to do so. (Nigeria has been fighting Boko Haram for five years, and military leaders recently claimed to be ready for the elections.)
Even if the reason were not so absurd, Nigerians are politically astute enough to know that the postponement has nothing to do with security. It is a flailing act of desperation from an incumbent terrified of losing. There are fears of further postponements, of ploys to illegally extend Jonathan's term. In a country with the specter of a military coup always hanging over it, the consequences could be dangerous. My indifference has turned to anger. What a staggeringly self-serving act of contempt for Nigerians. It has cast, at least for the next six weeks, the darkest possible shroud over our democracy: uncertainty.

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Between Tonto Dikeh's ex-boyfriend and his new girlfriend

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From: Linda Ikeji


Between Tonto Dikeh's ex-boyfriend and his new girlfriend
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Tonto Dikeh's ex-boyfriend, luxury designer Michael Awujoola aka Malivelihood is currently dating Deola Smart, the daughter of a Kogi district senator. Last night Deola's friend, designer Abbyke Domina uploaded Deola's picture on her page, and Malivelihood commented, calling Deola his wife. Deola replied and called him her hubby. You see why Tonto is hiding her new man from everyone?
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Rapper B.o.B gives men advice on how to 'choke out a woman' while having relations

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From: Linda Ikeji


Rapper B.o.B gives men advice on how to 'choke out a woman' while having relations


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Is this guy OK? Why is he giving out lessons on social media on how men can choke out women? The rapper took to instagram yesterday to spill sexual tips on how men can keep it interesting in the bedroom. And according to him, it involves choking the woman. He gave his followers step-by-step on how to properly apply pressure to their women's neck for an orgasmic rush. What he posted above
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Meet 10 pretty wives of Igbo billionaires


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From: Linda Ikeji


LIB exclusive: Meet 10 pretty wives of Igbo billionaires
Here are 10 pretty wives of Igbo billionaire business men. Left is Nkiru Anumudu, the wife of billionaire businessman and Chairman of Globe motors, Willie Anumudu. Right is Fifi Umenyiora, the wife of billionaire owner of Dilly Motors, Dilly Umenyiora. See the rest after the cut...


Ebele Obiano is the current first Lady of Anambra state, married to governor Willie Obiano

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Uchenna Ubah is the wife Ifeanyi Ubah, the owner of Capital oil and Gas ltd.
Left is Ifeyinwa Ibeto, she's married to business mogul, Cletus Ibeto, owner of the Ibeto group. And right is Ada Vivian Offor, the wife of billionaire business man, Sir Emeka Offor
 
Mrs Chris Ubah is the wife of Politician and business mogul, Chris Ubah

Charity Maduka is the wife of billionaire automobile dealer and owner of Coscharis motors, Cosmas Maduka.

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Left: Ex-beauty queen Dabota Lawson Aku is the pretty wife of Prince Sunny Aku, owner of Novena Majesty Furniture and other businesses and right is Maureen Ahize, the wife of Lagos big boy, Charles Ahize.
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Working Mums. Kim K recreates Gisele Bundchen photo...

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From: Linda Ikeji


Working Mums. Kim K recreates Gisele Bundchen photo...


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Kim K recreated the world's highest earning supermodel pose with her daughter. Left is Giselle two years ago with her son and right is Kim with North in a photo posted on instagram yesterday. Mums getting makeup done while tending to their children

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Photos: Don Jazzy, PSquare, Clarence Peters in SA for video shoot


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From: Linda Ikeji


Photos: Don Jazzy, PSquare, Clarence Peters in SA for video shoot
The music stars, award winning producer and music video director posted pics from South Africa and announced a major collaboration alert. More photos after the cut...

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The Pressure to have an "A List" Wedding by Adejoro Olumofin

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From: Linda Ikeji


The Pressure to have an "A List" Wedding by Adejoro Olumofin
Article is written by the Flamboyant Psychologist - Adejoro Olumofin
My upcoming Book "The Nigerian Wedding" encompasses the Pressures and Cultural framework that make up a Nigerian Wedding and the idea of Marriage in our Generation. Some of which are:

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(1)Paternal Pressure I.e Nigerian Parents putting pressure on their children to get married. They say things like: Continue...
I)I wanted to be a Grandparent by 60 ii)See your friend Tola she's married and pregnant what are you doing? iii)Pastor said you should fast for 3 months so husband will come
Iv)Pastor said you must wear white for the next 3 weeks so you'll attract guys who are ready
V)Don't be anyone's bridesmaid again the next wedding you're attending must be yours
Vi)You're too old for casual friends. I want a son-in-law

(2) Social Media Frenzy: If your wedding isn't Bella Naija, Wedding Digest or Nigerian wedding verified are you really married? Some Brides put Financial, Mental and Emotional strain on their partners just to outdo their friends or have the biggest wedding of the year. Sometimes this causes friction between husband and wife before they even leave the wedding hall. 

(3) Expensive Jewellery and Wedding Attires: I've overheard some Ladies say "if my gown isn't Vera Wang I'm not getting married, or if I'm not wearing Red bottoms (Christian Louboutins) I'm not getting married.. Red bottoms are now the Official wedding shoes in Naija. 

(4) Destination Weddings: The new "it" thing. There's been some controversy over Destination weddings. Some people are of the opinion that it's a waste of money, others think its unnecessary stress since you're Nigerian why fly abroad when all your friends and family are in Nigeria. This is subjective as the choice for some people is not about impressing others but doing what makes them happy and what their pocket can carry.

(5) Makeup and Makeup Artists: A Nigerian wedding is such an Institution now that more than 50% of Ladies believe they will meet their husbands there so they don't joke with their appearance. Because of this, a lot of young ladies have made good careers out of making brides look gorgeous and also doing makeup for guests. But as Nigerians we sometimes take things to the extreme by judging a bride by the makeup artist she used or didn't use. You hear comments like "That bride was random", " Her makeup was tacky", "her guests looked too basic"

(6) Aso-Ebi : This is a Traditional Attire chosen by a side of the family either Bride or Groom for their guests. Aso-Ebi has ended a lot of people's relationships or Marriages because some women spend all their Salary and savings on Aso-Ebi and forget to cater for important things at home such as children's school fees and meals at home. Some Aso-Ebi's cost 150,000 Naira, multiply that by 7 weddings, that's over 1 million Naira. This can go a long way if invested well.

(7) Wedding vs Marriage: No one talks about Marriage anymore or the ideas of Marriage in our Generation. We get carried away in the celebrations of the wedding and its Glamour that the idea of Marriage is left out. In the time of our Parents,things were different. There was no Instagram, Twitter or any form of social media to judge or rate weddings. Social media now serves as a platform for your wedding to gain approval and likes. Your wedding may be the biggest and the foundations of your marriage are small and your wedding may be the smallest and the foundations of your marriage are big. 


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8) Bride-zilla: Some brides, as a result of their Social status and the status if their Husband, change and act "brand new" towards their old friends. They make crazy demands towards the planning of their wedding. Some bride's rent bridesmaids or screen their old friends who can't afford or meet up to the wedding plans. A bride in Lagos once told her friends to lose a ridiculous amount of weight or not attend her wedding because she wanted everyone to look like Models or Actresses.
9)Wedding based on Debt : As a result of the pressure to have a fairy tale wedding or "wedding of the year" some couples exceed their budget, sometimes get into debt from owing wedding planners, caterers or artist who performed at the wedding. Real life cases in Nigeria have seen couples owing between 10 to 15 million Naira after the ceremony.

10) Mother Vs Bride: Some mothers since their child was an infant they have planned their wedding ceremony. Most brides when they become teenagers also have an idea of what their special day should look like. Most times there is a clash of minds and hearts because some mothers take over their daughters day and it basically becomes the mothers wedding again with the bride being left out.
Your Wedding may be biggest and the foundations of your marriage may not be strong whereas your wedding may be small and intimate and the foundations of your marriage are solid. In all do what makes you happy and is in the best interest of you and your family most importantly your partner.
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Faces of Nigerian children taking refuge in Chad

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From: Linda Ikeji


Faces of Nigerian children taking refuge in Chad
These are faces of Nigerian children who are currently taking refuge in Chad. They fled Baga during Boko Haram's attack in January this year. Some of them don't even know where their parents or siblings are at the moment. Another pic after the cut...
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