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You know what they say, pick your sexual partners carefully…very carefully. We've seen time and time again how things can go left…quickly.
And secondly, when you have sex, make sure your partner is ok with what you're doing.
Though these lessons seem simple enough, unfortunately they were not followed by a couple in South Africa, 25-year-old Humphrey Khoza or the 17-year-old girl he was sleeping with.
This girl, from Mpumalanga, South Africa, who was not named because she is underage, had consensual–though illegal–sex with Khoza. What she didn't know was that he recorded the act on his laptop, without her permission. And not only did Khoza record their escapade, somehow the video got out.
The girl told Times Live, "I heard about the video from one of my classmates and I thought they were joking, but then I saw the video myself and lost my mind."
The video was uploaded to social media.
The girl said she was so enraged that she immediately thought of ways to make Khoza pay for his actions. She walked into the local bar that he frequented and threw battery acid on his penis while he was drinking beer with his friends.
The girl said, later, in an interview, "I never intended to kill his penis. I was just angry and all I wanted was to make him feel the pain I was feeling. I had to do something to show him that I was angry and wanted to hurt him so that he can see that he messed with the wrong girl."
The girl said Khoza deceived her even further by not wearing a condom while they were having sex.
She searched through her father's tools for a wheel spanner initially but stumbled across the acid.
"I took it and went straight to his regular drinking place and when I got there I became angrier. I didn't hesitate to pour the acid on him."
Khoz, who had been dating this girl since December, told reporters, "Everything happened in a blink of an eye because I saw her when she was coming with a bottle, but I didn't realize that she was carrying acid. She just angrily called me a dog. She asked me how in the world I could have done such an evil thing to her. It was only then that I realized that she was talking about the video that I took while we were having sex."
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While Khoza did admit to recording he and the girl having sex, he didn't intend to show it to anyone and doesn't understand how the video landed on social media.
Khoza, whose penis will never function properly again, is remorseful and says he's lucky to be alive.
From now on, he'll have to urinate through a tube and will eventually have to undergo surgery.
And while he's been advised to press charges, he doesn't think it will be worth it.
"Even if I press charges it is useless because it won't bring back my manhood. Her being in jail will just ruin her future because she is still young and I do not have the energy to attend courts."
When authorities were asked if they would press charges, the police said only if one of the two parties want to open a case.
Before we go any further, we all know why Khoza doesn't want to open up a case. I don't know South African law but in America, I can think of at least two different charges that would keep him from doing so: sex with a minor, recording of child porn and most likely the distribution of it as well. I'm just not buying the story about him not knowing how it got on social media. I think that's what he means when he says he's lucky to still have his life. If homegirl was thinking properly, she would have gone to the police rather than her father's toolbox.
I'm actually quite surprised the law is not pursuing this case without anyone filing charges, perhaps they feel like Khoza has suffered enough.
What do you make of this story? Certainly two wrongs don't make a right but do you think Khoza should take the brunt of the blame for the way things turned out?
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